“Do you love me?” Acts 5:27-32,40b-41; Rev 5:11-14; Jn 21:1-19 (3 Easter/ C)

 

“Do you love me?”

Acts 5:27-32,40b-41; Rev 5:11-14; Jn 21:1-19 (3 Easter/ C)

 “We hold our common assembly on Sunday because it is the first day of the week” (St Justin, Martyr)

Most scholars believe today’s Gospel passage to have been an addition to John’s original text. Because of the significant differences between this report and the other described appearances in the Gospel, it is quite likely that this story is from a different source. The meeting with Jesus on the lakeshore can be seen as the story of Peter’s repentance and declaration of faith. His repeated “Yes, Lord!” declares love and loyalty. It has corresponded to Peter’s threefold denial of Jesus. Jesus questioned three times, and there was a reason for that. It was three times that Peter denied his Lord, and it was three times that his Lord gave him the chance to affirm his love (Jn 21:15-17). Jesus, in his gracious forgiveness, gave Peter the chance to wipe out the memory of the threefold denial by a threefold declaration of love.

The word “love” is an interesting usage here in this context. When Jesus asked, “Do you love me?” and Peter answered, “Yes, I love you”. It makes good sense. But in the Greek New Testament, what Peter replies does not respond exactly to the question Jesus asked. Greek has several words to express various levels of affection. In his book “The Four Loves”, C.S. Lewis describes them as follows: There is “storgé” (affection), the quiet liking one might feel for a cheerful neighbor. Secondly, “eros”, a sensual or erotic love, the love that unites a couple and often leads to marriage. Thirdly, “philia”, or friendship, trusting companionship with people with whom we share some real interest. Finally, “agape” is a generous, self-giving love, which we value even when there is nothing tangible to be gained.

What love brought Peter? (a) It brought him a task. “If you love me,” Jesus said, “then give your life to shepherding the sheep and the lambs of my flock”.  We can prove that we love Jesus only by loving others. Love is the greatest privilege in the world, but it brings the greatest responsibility. (b) It brought Peter a cross. Jesus said to him: “When you are young you can choose where you will go; but the day will come when they stretch out your hands on a cross, and you will be taken on a way you did not choose” (Jn 21:18). The day came when, in Rome, Peter died for his Lord. He, too, went to the Cross, and he asked to be nailed to it head downwards, for he said that he was not worthy to die as his Lord had died. Love always involves responsibility and sacrifice. We do not love Christ unless we are prepared to face his task and take up his Cross.

In that meeting at the lake, Peter was not the boastful one who thought he was better than the other disciples, but a wiser, humbler heart that would not claim more than he could deliver. Peter’s confession is like that of the father of the possessed boy who said to Jesus, “I believe, help my unbelief!” (Mk 9:24) Peter said, “I love you, Lord, help my lack of love.” Peter’s meeting with the risen Christ reminds us that professions of love tell only one side of the truth. In reality, our love is unconditional, and we often back away when faced with danger. Like Peter, we need to bring our failures to God for healing. We can join Peter today when he declares, “I love you, Lord, help my lack of love.” To follow in the steps of Peter we don’t have to be Peter’s successors, but each of us can guard someone from going astray. Each of us can feed the lambs of Christ with the food of the word of God. Let us pray to the Holy Spirit for the College of Cardinals to elect the new Pope to lead the Church.

“The whole creation will be freed and will enjoy the glory and freedom” (Divine Office)